gay couples having children isn't accidental as it can be with straight couples; they are more prepared and willing to go through a harder route to have children, meaning they will be more appreciative and caring when they have the opportunity to have a child. Due to preperation they are more likely to be financially stable, there is no less of love compared to a straight couple; however, there is more acceptance for that child to be who they want to be and will surely be supported in their decisions. You do not need a mother and father to be a structured family as long as they love and cared for that child thats all that matters